[upd] - This Office Worker Keeps Turning Her Ass Towards Me
Monday morning meeting: The conference table was round, yet she chose the chair that required her to twist her torso to face the projector screen, leaving her back to me. She didn’t lean back; she leaned forward, elbows on the table, the line of her posture a question mark directed at my chest. I watched the fabric of her blouse shift with her breathing. I stopped listening to the quarterly projections. I watched the history of evolution play out in the curve of a lower back—the biological imperative of protection, of trust.
Buy her a coffee. Ask her about the cactus mug. Or simply enjoy the show.
When dealing with perceived inappropriate behavior in the workplace, such as a colleague repeatedly positioning themselves in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it is essential to handle the situation with . 1. Document the Behavior Objectively this office worker keeps turning her ass towards me
Before jumping to conclusions or assuming the worst, let's consider a few possible explanations for her actions:
Understanding Workplace Dynamics: Navigating Awkward Office Body Language Monday morning meeting: The conference table was round,
Notice you are not saying, "Stop pointing your butt at me." You are asking about her comfort. This forces her to realize, consciously, that she is facing away. Nine times out of ten, the person will go slightly red, laugh, and say, "Oh my god, I didn't even realize I was doing that!" Problem solved.
: Operating under the assumption that colleagues are simply going about their workdays without hidden motives prevents friction and fosters a collaborative atmosphere. I stopped listening to the quarterly projections
Squeak. Turn. Squeak. Turn.